{"id":20,"date":"2009-09-01T22:46:41","date_gmt":"2009-09-01T20:46:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tngblog.com\/2009\/09\/01\/my-mother\/"},"modified":"2009-09-01T22:46:41","modified_gmt":"2009-09-01T20:46:41","slug":"my-mother","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tngphoto.com\/wordpress\/?p=20","title":{"rendered":"My mother\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In my living room, right by the door, hangs a 16&#215;24 portrait of my mother and sister. It is one of my favorite portraits I&#8217;ve taken. It&#8217;s a simple photograph yet for me it shows my mother&#8217;s personality and character perfectly as the caring, loving person who always put her family and others before herself. She was a wonderful example for me and my brother and sister.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tngphoto.com\/blog\/mom1.jpg\" width=\"560\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This was taken on March 29, 2009. She passed away on June 23, 2009. I took these portraits of her knowing that her time was short and I wanted something special for us all to remember her by. A few months earlier, I also took portraits of she and my Dad together. Before then, they had never had a portrait taken together. I was happy I could be the one to do the work for them. I also did it as one of my final gifts to her in hopes of giving her a little cheer in her final days before her passing. One of the last e-mails I received from her before she could no longer get out of bed was concerning this photo. She said one quick line, &#8220;Nate, I am speechless. It is beyond words.&#8221; I&#8217;m glad she liked it.<font color=\"navy\" face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; color: navy\"><\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"navy\" face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; color: navy\"><\/span><\/font><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tngphoto.com\/blog\/mom2.jpg\" height=\"560\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At her funeral, along with my brother, brother in law and my cousins, was able to be a paul bearer for her. I was very nervous about this even though I have been a paul bearer several times before. It was a very humbling experience that I&#8217;m honored to have been apart of for my mother, though it was very difficult.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tngphoto.com\/blog\/mom4.jpg\" width=\"560\" \/><\/p>\n<p>My brother Randy and I were in front.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tngphoto.com\/blog\/mom3.jpg\" width=\"560\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Placing my flower on her casket.<\/p>\n<p>I really love being a photographer. I love creating heirlooms that will be passed down for generations to come long after I&#8217;m dead and gone. I can now more genuinely attest to their importance because of my mother&#8217;s passing. I miss her very much. It saddens me to think I cannot call her when I please just to say &#8220;hi.&#8221; I&#8217;m so glad I took the time to take her photograph her when I could. Ok, that&#8217;s enough of me being sappy. I&#8217;ll let you go. 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